", "Well, there can be layers to it. Reddit doesn't disappoint. ", "It's not the lewds/nudes that bother me, its the selling subs a 'girlfriend experience.' My doctor is a French female and does treat me as a male. ", "Generally, cold places with a lack of access to spices or not much agricultural history make the worst food and Mongolia checks all those boxes. I know it was just procedure but it was sooo embarrassing! I dont want to be that prude American but also am not comfortable with how everything is done here. Again, I was wearing my favorite extra snug spandex underwear and not knowing how much time feeling, groping and looking my naked m young male body would take. It doesnt surprise me that some of the doctors are a little bit perverted, had a chuckle at that, but I wonder how many just like to look versus those whose intentions could be considered criminal. 17 Horror Stories Starring An ER Near You, 23 Stories That Will Make You Re-Think Trusting in Modern Medicine, 18 People Tell Their Craziest Ex Stories.. and Hold Nothing Back, 17 Parents Reveal Horrible Secrets They Can Never Tell Their Kids, 14 People Recall the Scariest, Creepiest, Most Unsettling Moments of Their Lives, 15 Facts That Sound Like Total BS but Actually Arent, 25 Last Words From Patients That Will Make You Smile, Shiver, and Laugh Out Loud, 18 Real-Life Divorces That Took It Way Too Far, 19 Times Playing Truth or Dare Went Terribly Wrong, 23 Pizza Delivery Horror Stories That Will Make You Glad You Work at Starbucks, 24 Stories That Will Make You Rethink Giving AirBNB a Try. joan hopper william hopper's daughter; escape to the chateau boat hire; maria zhukova daughter of zhukov I can assue you 100% that this is perfectly normal. I like privacy! For an X-ray, I have a little room where Im alone and I can get undressed, then the tech is asking if Im done from the other side of the door, and then I can get in the room where I get my X-ray. Ive never felt like french doctors werent sensitive to my vulnerability, and Im grateful for it. Im examined completely, one part of my anatomy at a time, being dont want poked and groped medically, yet her gentle and soft hands examining my whole body make me feel good, as shell slowly undress me while removing all my snug spandex sports outfit and underwear, piece by piece while examining my soon to be completely naked body male body. ", "Never again. He diagnoses me. And if its out of control, Ill definitely change doctors. Edit: By this I just mean that a lot of times nerdy guys are a hard nut to crack, and its appealing and exciting to have to dig a little to see whats inside. Sorry you had the same experience. If I lived in France, Id just parade down the hall past the others stark naked if necessary and just smile and say hi. ", "Major red flag, and its easy to tell if you get them out of a professional environment. I don't know how to date someone while they're 'playing house' with who knows how many delusional people. And for the x-ray, I guess I was trying to respect French customs and just went w/the flow of not having any gown or anything. Many chronic pain conditions are part of a larger syndrome such as fibromyalgia. Best Buddies Turkey Ekibi; Videolar; Bize Ulan; embarrassing urology exam 27 ub. She said its common, but I was totally embarrassed. I would suggest you read http://www.pol-editeur.com/index.php?spec=livre&ISBN=978-2-86744-603-0. ", "Interesting teeth. Id love to read a copy of the French code of ethics and conduct in the medical profession. The sauna area is perfectly private and I had a towel to lie down on so it was sanitary and cleaned after each client. And in France Ive never seen a nurse in the room with the doctor like there is in the US. There's this lidocaine lube that helps make an otherwise uncomfortable procedure considerably less uncomfortable. We had a teenager come in with his mother (we were not a pediatric urology office but saw teens on special occasions with a doctors OK) .. kid was masturbating with a cell phone charger and got it stuck in his bladder. The thorough examination was carried out by a male, including a routine prostate check. Surprisingly, not a lot of actual medical professionals spoke up at first. Get the facts about this disease that affects more than 240,000 men each year. Obviously I dont want to scare you and 90% of doctors wouldnt do anything inappropriate but Id advise you to not take it for granted. I usually wear a long button down which I keep on during examinations and helps me feel less exposed. He turned his head and did his best crow imitation: "Caw! She gently flipped my penis up and covered it with a towel so that just my scrotum was exposed, and that did it I had a full fledged hardon within 6 seconds. ", "I dont like Russian cuisine (its pretty mid) but Russian cuisine actually helps to improve Mongolian food at some of the trendier Mongolian restaurants (which dont serve pure traditional Mongolian food). I had to go to a specialist urologist due to pain in my ding dong. Our skimmable newsletter is delivered to your inbox each week, giving you 5 things you need to read and get smarter. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. It did take some time stripping it all off,on a real cold day, but in the end They made me feel very natural being naked with them. Please read this section carefully. The Lamb Clinic understands and treats the underlying causes as well as the indications and symptoms. Im like no way in hell, dude! It indicates incompatible views about sexuality, which is an important standard for me. Theyre not going to laugh at you or take advantage of you. I just refer to it as the pedophile pick-up, and people generally know what Im talking about. We make mistakes. Webnurse will be present at all times during examination of the genital area, rectum or female breast. I was escorted to a room, told to disrobe right in front of her and then told again to remove my bra as well with her standing right there. How Bad Does It Hurt Im sorry if my original comment implied nobody wanted you nerds. That ended up being just as awkward. After a couple minutes of waiting, in comes the nurse. ", "The best food I had there was in Kyiv in an Indian restaurant! Just because I moved to France as an adult doesnt mean I can or should abandon what Im comfortable with. At a gyno appointment when I was 19, I was all situated on the table with my legs up, fully exposed. Ive been to going to a female doctor for physical exams and other medical care only in the U.S. for several years, who known me well too. My balls hurt. Nerds are intelligent and thats sexy as hell. Give the gift of knowledge with our official 'did you know' book! Caw!". A commenter before you who was a doctor in France weighed in and said that a doctor watching you undress is NOT normal, in his opinion. Its my first comment on your blog, but I have to say this: I dont think its a cultural difference, acting like that for a doctor is not normal (Im French). He should understand that, and if he doesnt, change doctors! Being terrified as I was that my wife was in the process of delivering our firstborn, I helpfully offered up "Don't worry, some people pay good money for that." Then he proceeds to stand there with his appointment book scheduling our session for next week as I rush to pull on my pants and socks. Look after it. They saw meconium (first baby poop) in the amniotic fluid, so they started flushing me out. Never being at fault, always being the victim, and not taking responsibility for repair are huge red flags. I did the same arms-over-chest-shuffle to the xray machine and beat it out of there afterwards as fast as possible! But, if I made a woman take off her top in my consult room and palpated her abdomen, knowing that this was unnecessary, thats essentially the same assault but its tenfold harder to prove. ", "I had some truly terrible food in Ukraine, particularly in the Chornobyl exclusion zone workers' cafeteria, which we were kindly allowed to use when touring. Thanks for reading! The human body in its naked form is not something to be embarrassed or ashamed about. Going forward, I think Im going to refrain from doing anything I feel uncomfortable with regardless of whats normal in France. "I like a nice back. Im usually the kind of person who avoids making a scene so I probably wouldnt have yelled, but I had an awkward experience two years ago that changed my mentality about these kinds of situation. I wish I had told the patients at the time that these comments are not appreciated. Then for me our bodies are sacred to our relationship. Did we miss any? ", "Kenya. Heres more on going to the doctor in France >>. We turned and every time the patient coughed, urine shot out about two feet. I remember wearing rather snug, warm outer snowsuit and leotards underneath. WebUrology. Its really nice having a physical examination by two female medical specialists ( doctor and RN nurse) Although this in the U.S.A, both ladies are very good, professional and gentle with me, as a male. Then the doctor made me bend over so they could check my spine. Ive never been to a doctors visit any time in Europe including France. I can tell you for a fact that with certain doctors, unattractive women just got a blood pressure check, whereas the hot girls got the works breast exams & pelvic exams. Soon the radiologists got her magic wand up my snatch and I hear a whoa!, Im like, oh hell no what the fuck is there to whoa about in there?, She turns the ultrasound screen towards me, points at this enormous black shape and goes, How much water did you drink!?. Mortifying! ", "Also, I ordered Fajitas and was served a quesadilla with bell peppers in it. Perhaps their affable and friendly nature makes someone more attractive. You only have the one. http://www.pol-editeur.com/index.php?spec=livre&ISBN=978-2-86744-603-0. During the procedure, your doctor guides a narrow, flexible scope through the urethra into the bladder. Acquaintance was a 17-year-old male getting a physical from a female doctor. If I want to cover up, Ill cover up and if a doctor is weird, I wont go back. If not, Id want to find another doctor. After about 15 minutes of her slowly rubbing that plastic tool all over my nuts, she finished up and said Well, your testicles are healthy! I hope you passed! Plus get my FREE GUIDE with 24 DOs & DON'Ts to keep in mind when visiting France! You need to provide verification (consent and proof of age) for every person that is shown on your page. So as part of their heres how to make this suck less packet, the hospital includes pretty specific instructions to drink three bottles of water an hour before your appointment, without going to the bathroom, so that they can tell which fleshy sack of muscle is your bladder and which is your uterus. Re your comment about just looking vs actual criminality, its a fine line one that unfortunately does get crossed from time to time. directions too literally and tried to shove a handful of semen through the office window. Some doctors have the kinds of specialties that might make others cringe - but those doctors who specialize in reproductive and excretory systems are literal life savers! Anyhow, these are some mostly innocuous stories of visits to the doctors office, where embarrassment reigns supreme over other regular nuisances one might encounter while seeingdoctor, like finding out your pre-existing cancer is no longer covered by your insurance: I went in for a prostate exam, and when the doctor was performing it, I ejaculated. As an American, male I was somewhat embarrassed when told all clothes have to come off. Being kind, always. I mean even if its just for the patient to feel more comfortable, its worth it! I was freaking out when the doctor walked in, so the nice nurse came in to help comfort me. Dont be a prude. again, so it's not something I'd feel comfortable in supporting. The Lamb Clinic provides a comprehensive assessment and customized treatment plan for all new patients utilizing both interventional and non-interventional treatment methods. Again, why the nurse being in the room is so important I feel. Gynecologists, proctologists, and urologists, what's the most awkward thing that's happened to you with a patient? I have a relatively straight set of natural chompers on me, but I can't stand unnaturally straight teeth. Apparently they put three bottles on the instructions with the assumption that people would only be able to drink like, one or two and would stop when they couldnt handle any more. Unfortunately, I didnt realise that they needed to do a scoliosis test, and apparently my sports bra covered too much of my back, so I had to take it off! But no. Leave it up to the patients, but if some want to pass on gowns and other coverage and go au natural, let them. The other day its bread for dinner (no joke) and Sunday more than likely youre eating Fries and some other deep-fried snacks. Getting a good sweat on. people who have a capacity for self-reflection and owning their mistakes tell stories where theyre a**holes. Great way to start a career of phallic disappointment. Its only the brainwashing you have been given that equates a naked body with being somehow dirty. And by that, I mean he looked at my testicles. When I became older, and.seasoned.lol, I started realizing what I was missing out on and I got myself a super sexy shy nerd who Im blissfully happy with 10 years after meeting him. All of us can appreciate an excellent meal, but our opinion of an amazing meal will vary from person to person. Anonymous 3. 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